There is a quality of Welcoming someone's Being in to the Village.

A growing number of people in the Healing Village found that did not experience this quality of Being fully and completely Welcomed in the world by an Initiated Adult who could hold the shattering intensity of a Heart-to-Heart, Being-to-Being connection with a new born baby.

They are now, themselves, standing at the gate of the Healing Village and opening their arm to the many unseen Beings who find this space. They call themselves 'Being Birthers' or 'Being Accompanier'.

So many of us are still needing to Be Welcomed fully and completely, with our Beings.

When a Being gets born, the Village heart breaks, it breaks to make space for a whole new Being to enter the living organism of woven Beings and Lives.

If when your Being was born, the heart of your Village do not break, you are missing the experience of Being fully and completely Welcomed. No space was made for you. So often, the result is that you resent your Village (your parents, your siblings, but also Earth and the world at large) because they have not welcomed you, they did not let their heart break for you.

What we discover is that it can happen now. You can choose to be welcomed by a new Village. One in which people learn to have their heart broken together.

While at the same time, each of us is doing some kind of Edgework. It is possible that you unfold in way that are so new and radical that even members of your Village cannot comprehend or even see. In those moments, you can learn to welcome yourself. Even when your parents cannot do it, maybe the trainer cannot do it, the other participants cannot do it, but you know what is happening.

The invitation is to learn to respect and put your attention on this part of you more to unfold than the lack of welcoming .

The PM Healing Village is a space where you learn to use your own heart and come to Life, you celebrate yourself and in some moment of resonance and reverence, the Village celebrates your becoming by having our own heart broken by your Being coming to life.

For most of your life, it might have been perfectly acceptable to make claims such as, “I feel unheard. I feel righteous. I feel betrayed. I feel rejected. I feel superior. I feel not good enough. I feel insulted. I feel unworthy. I feel privileged. I feel underprivileged,” and so on, ad nauseam.

Ignoring the distinction between thoughts and feelings creates a field of such confusion that communications cannot be resolved. Feelings and thoughts then get mushed together into a kind of energetic quicksand out of which it is nearly impossible to climb without resorting to war. To confirm this statement, consider the history of modern culture.

When the U.S. representative acts ‘insulted’ and ‘outraged’, and then uses this emotional reactivity as his excuse to veto a ruling that would fight global warming internationally, it is not revealed that his true emotion is child-level fear of financial reprisals from his corporate sponsors… and thus the world burns.

It is the same at the scale of your own personal relating with your partner, family, friends and colleagues. Gameworld Consultants have witnessed from front row seats that the downfall of so many well-intention communities and ecovillages starts with the lack of clarity between Thoughts and Feelings, and between Feelings and Emotions.

Making a contextual distinction between thoughts and feelings empowers whole nations and international organizations (and also individual persons, couples, families, neighborhoods, and villages) to stand in the clarity that: unheard, righteous, betrayed, rejected, superior, not good enough, insulted, unworthy, privileged, underprivileged, etc. are NOT feelings. They are thoughts combined into stories.

This simple distinction is not necessarily easy to source. Re-grooving your nerves' pathways from believing your own stories to making use of Emotions for Healing and Feelings for Creation takes practice and a shift of your Point-of-Origin into a context of Adult Responsibility.

Emotional Healing Processes are not about "processing emotions".

"Processing" emotions enacts the therapeutic / psychoanalysis and New Age context. From the psycho-analysis perspective, "process" means to understand and be able to capture whatever is going on with you in your mind. From the New Age context, "process" is to catharte (Catharsis) your emotion by expressing full out Emotion in order to make them go away.

Neither approach create resilient and regenerative Transformation for your Being to exit the Survival 8 Prisons of your Box and Gremlin.

In the context of Radical Responsibility and using the tools of Possibility Management, being in Process means being in Transformation. An Emotional Healing Process uses Emotions as a gateway to upgrade what you can take Responsibility for: what you can Notice, Distinguish, Ask for, make a Boundary, Declare, Take A Stand, Commit, new ways of Relating, creating Gameworlds, and delivering your Nonmaterial Value.

Transformation occurs through taking Responsibility as an Adult, as source (not as a Victim or an additional pressure). The shift to the ecastasy of taking Responsibility requires many Upgraded Thoughtwares and practice in Basic Inner Navigation Skills.

Such as:

* Where is your Center? Can you keep your Center around your partner? And around anybody else? If not, then it is time to practice!

* Experiencing and expressing your 4 Feelings and 4 Emotions, meaning Letting Your Heart Speak to the degree that you can feeling and speaking at the same time, one not hindering the other. Which is something that in addition to practice with a spaceholder, you can do with your partner, Bridge-House member and even your mother!

* Which of your 5 bodies might be starving and therefore you are imbalanced and create Low Drama in your Relating as a reaction?

* Have you upgraded your nervous system to be able to experience Anger at Very Low Intensity Feeling so that you do not only experience your Feelings when they go above your Numbness Bar? This is what the 3-3-3 Initiation is for.

The idea of "processing" is so invasive in Standard Intelligence Human Thoughtware that is blocks the possibility of EHP.

In Basic Inner Navigation Skill practice, you not only build a strong Inner Structure for your Being, you also learn to hold space for someone else, which is an incredible way to gain perspective on your own Hooks and Low Drama. Letting other forces do their work on you than your usual survival patterns.

This is an encouragement to keep in Mind and Heart to also Practice together and not only ask for an EHP when there is a unmanageable trigger.

Using EHP as a last resort is comparable to putting a bandaid on a bullet wound. Consider Basic Skill Practices as steps to avoid the bullet in the first place! Then, your energy does not have to bleed out 10 times a day, and you can use it for something else than Emotional Reactivity.

Villaging can be an estranged concept if you were born in a hospital surrounded by doctors who have no ties to your family, if you lived in a house with only your nuclear family and slept in your own bed, if you were sent to school at 5 years old to unknown teachers who have no commitment to your Being, your knacks or your dreams, if you went on to work a hierarchical corporate job for money without accountability to your colleagues, to Gaia, or to your Archetypal Lineage, if you have dedicated your life to survival.

Villaging means accountability. Ah! Dangerous word. Who wants to be accountable these days? In Modern Culture, you learn to avoid Responsibility and Accountability at all costs. If you can find someone else to blame or complain about, you can be righteous about your behaviour. If you can avoid taking a risk, then you can relax. Patriarchal thoughtware says: Being Responsibility is Stupid.

Archan Villaging comes about when a certain number of people upgrade their thoughtware about Responsibility, and find Adult Joy in being Accountable to something greater than themselves. Responsibility from the Point-of-Origin of Next Culture Archiarchy is Possibility.

Shifting from the old to the new Thoughtmap of Responsibility often requires an in-between Journey of Radical Freedom. When you start asking yourself: "Now I have all this freedom, what is it good for?", this would indicate the time when your Being in ready to give its life to something else than yourself without giving your Center with it.

Archan Villaging is weaving your intelligence with that of the group to source Nonlinear Unreasonable New Possibility.

Archan Villaging is choose to empower others on their Path of Evolution.

Archan Villaging is collaboratively creating something that does not belong to anyone - the Village, but that is cherished by many.

Archan Villaging is sourcing a 'home' where Beings are welcomed.

Archan Villaging is being heart broken in the company of others who are just so, not to despair, but towards Aliveness.

One question on the table here is, can we make use of the richness of these diverse perspectives while co-creating together as a Team?

Creative Team Collaboration does not mean to sacrifice your Authority, your Radical Freedom, your Voice, your Center, your Archetypal Lineage Mission, or any of that. On the contrary, it means to amplify your Resources beyond what you might be able to imagine at the moment.

We search wide and far to find a meeting and decision-making technology that would amplify each person's Stellated Infinite Resources when in company of each other. We did not find it, so we invented it. That is: Torus Technology.

There is much to learn about how Torus Technology functions.

Some of the core elements are:

• There is an Infinity Ring that steward the gameworld. Joining the Infinity Ring happens when you are organically stewarding the gameworld. As of 2024, the Infinity Ring is composed of Anne-Chloé Destremau, Gabriel Hudry Lechemin and Nicole Nette.
• The PM Healing Village is composed of Node that care for a specific facet of the Village.
• Anyone can start a Node or make Proposals as long as they participate in the improvement and evolution of the PM Healing Village. If you make such a Node/ Proposal, it is your job to carry it out.
• Emotional Reactivity is not a based of Creative Collaboration, it is a doorway to an Emotional Healing Process. We use The Purple Card.

We will go as far as saying that the biggest healing that occurs within the PM Healing Village is not per se through EHP. Those are, evidently, impactful to the point of miraculous at time; and are absolutely necessary in growing up in Adulthood.

And, it is the Growing Up Path that provides the basic foundation the true healing.

The kind of healing that is offered is the one that occurs when:

• you can hold your energetic center on your physical center, and Be Centered around anyone
• you can Experientially Distinguish and Radically Rely on your 4 Feelings, and Let Your Heart speak
• you can set Boundaries and take care of yourself at 100% in all 5 Bodies around anyone, that includes also your Underworld Parts
• you can Listening to someone else without being innerly hooked by your inner considerations (Voices, Gremlin Hooks, Child Egostate fears, etc...)
• you can Speak into a Vacuum Listening space without Being Adaptive, without fulling someone else's Expectations, or fight their Assumptions and Conclusions about you
• you can autonomously Choose from a resilient Inner Structure and a re-calibrated Compass of Reality

These are Adult competences. And they are build through step-by-step, diligent Practice. It is when the practice is no longer possible because there is an Emotional Reaction that it is time to ask for and go through an Emotional Healing Process.

The EHP APPARENTICE is THE space to train with others your BASIC INNER NAVIGATION SKILLS.

The EHP APPRENTICE Center is open to the public, meaning to anyone of the Path of taking Authority for their own Healing at first, and then for a Healing Village. Because, how can one exist without the other?

Participation is the key to join the PM Healing Village. In Modern culture, you might have developed habits to being served 'healing'. In Archiarchy, your participation is the first big step in Healing through Growing Up.

1. The first step when entering EHP APPRENTICES is to read the following websites:

• http://pmhealingvillage.mystrikingly.com
• http://emotionalhealingprocess.mystrikingly.com
• http://ehpdojo.mystrikingly.com

Start doing the Experiments listed on these websites, and record your Matrix Points in your free account at https://login.startover.xyz/

2. The second step is to ASK & HOLD SPACE for an exchange of BASIC SKILLS PRATICE for one of the four basic skills for an EHP. These PRACTICE SPACES are exchanged for no monetary cost. Find the explanation for BASIC SKILL PRACTICE in the next section.

3. Join the Emotional Healing Dojo happening on Friday held by Nicole Nette (see information in the EHP Apprentices Telegram group). As a first time participant of the Dojo, you mostly likely be invited to witness so that you can have an experience of how an Emotional Healing Process goes. If you want to join as a Client, it is also a Possibility. There is space to ask questions at the beginning and end of the space. Access the information to join the Dojo under the '3-3-3 & Basic Skill Dojos' Topic in the EHP APPRENTICES Telegram group.

4. Join the monthly EHP: Deepen Your Context & Skill-Up - in short 'Skill-Up' - held by an experienced EHP Spaceholder or Possibility Coach.

An Emotional Healing Process is a facilitated Transformational-change experience. An EHP is not psychoanalysis, or therapy. Nor is it breathwork, energy healing, chakra reading or reiki. While many of you have been trained in other healing modalities, an EHPs does not equate to other methods, because different methodologies emerge from different contexts. Often, other healing modalities do not start from Radical Responsibility.

An EHP is not Catharsis. An EHP is a Cathexis process in which the Client of an EHP uses the information and energy of their Emotional Body to transform their Being’s shape. An EHP is a doorway to a new Identity and a new interaction with the world. Catharsis does not accomplish these things for you.

Therefore, to be an EHP Client is to practice the following Basic Inner Navigation Skills:

• The ability to Inner Navigate your 4 Feelings and 4 Emotions Consciously. A Shift of Identity requires a Liquid State, a death of the old identity for a new identity to be born. In the Liquid State, you will feel something. Without clear and powerful Anger, Sadness, Fear, and Joy Inner Navigation skills, either you will avoid the Liquid State altogether, or the Liquid State will bring you no new shape because you stop at the level of mere Catharsis instead of going for Cathexis.

• The ability to navigate Very Low Intensity Feelings by drastically lowering your Numbness Bar through 3-3-3 Initiation. The 3-3-3 Initiation rewires your nervous system to being able to sustain the intensity of experiencing Feelings Consciously. Join a Team in the 3-3-3 Crossroad Telegram group (link in the 3-3-3 website).

• The ability to distinguish and let each of your 5 Bodies speak and be nourished. Especially, learning to distinguish between your Mind and your Heart, and learning to Hit Bottom and stay there. If you are not aware of an imbalance or a starvation in your 5 bodies, this has the potential of creating Reactivity, that cannot be healed through an EHP, only through feeding your 5 bodies fully.

• The ability to Be Centered, Grounded and Bubbled. In Modern Culture, you have been trained to give our center away to your ‘healers’ (and many other imaginary ‘authority figures’). In Archiarchy, Healing is Growing Up. Healing is gaining Authority and Agency in domains you previously were in childish survival about, for Eye Of The Needle’.

• The ability to distinguish your 6 Egostates. This helps you ongoingly and in real-time answer the question, “Which ‘I’ is speaking?” for yourself, and others, whether they are interested in the answer to that question or not.

• The ability to Speak into a Vacuum Listening space, and in reverse, the ability to Listen as a Vacuum. You might be so accustomed to automatically justifying yourself even in your own mind, that you do not know who you are when you are not defending yourself. Which Parts of your Being can show up when the connection is safe from opinions, beliefs, judgments and assumptions?

Practicing together in EHP APPRENTICES is a direct exchange, meaning that each time you meet, each person in the pair (or in a bigger group) practices the Basic Skills. We are apprenticing together. There is no 'teacher'. The Basic Skills are necessary for going through a full EHP. We all need ongoing practice.

In the EHP APPRENTICES Center, you can also ask for an EHP SPACEHOLDING from a trained EHP Spaceholder.

You can ask for a FREE SPACEHOLDING, which could be answered by a EHP Collaborator who is,at that moment in their Path, sharpening their skills.

You can ask for a PAID SPACEHOLDING. In this case, please announce the amount you are willing to exchange.

The Spaceholder of the PM Healing Village is holding space for a rotation of 10 to 20 EHP Spaceholders In Practice. These are Possibilitators who have developed BASIC INNER NAVIGATION SKILL, and who are already holding space for EHP (free & paid). They are declaring themselves to sharpen and hone their EHP Spacehholding and Space-navigating skills but holding space for APPRENTICES.

The list of EHP Spaceholders In Practice is posted in the EHP APPRENTICES group and updated regularly. In January 2024, the Spaceholder Team is still working to put this list in place.

Join the Telegram group here: https://t.me/+v1CzwdAoc6dkYjVh

The Feelings Practitioners work with all our bodies: the physical, the mental, the emotional, the energetic and the archetypal body.

The emotional body plays a central role, it is decisive in the interplay of all bodies. Emotions are used in their full quality and considered in the context of physical symptoms.

The practical application of Conscious Feelings is completely innovative and distinguishes our work. Together, we investigate how the repression of feelings leads to symptoms on the one hand, and how the restored, or first-experienced, flow of feelings helps to dissolve these symptoms on the other.

Possibilitators learn together and train each other to develop and deliver a wide range of powerful Feelings Practitioner processes to individuals.

In this Telegram Group you have access to weekly free Clinics, experiments to gain Agency in caring for your physical body, and 1-on-1 sessions with certified Feelings Practitioners. Join here: https://t.me/+D5zI_9cI94Y2YTZk